Compliments For Girls

Sometimes you just don't know if it's 'OK' to pay an older woman a compliment. Perhaps it may come across as rude or inappropriate. But in life, sometimes you just have to take a chance.

Most women are fine with a well-intentioned compliment, no matter their age. It is up to you to ensure that the compliment is well suited, though. That is what this article is about.

When you compliment an older women, you need to bear in mind that she has probably heard everything. This means, especially if she is quite physically striking, that she has been hit on many times in the past and your compliment may trigger feelings of awkward rejection she has had to endure when shooting guys down in her past.

To avoid this, you want to compliment her about something that is contextually relevant . This means complimenting her on something in the immediate context that is observable by both of you BESIDES her physical appearance. This takes a little work!

Some ideas to start with could include getting to know what she is 'out and about' doing. For example, if she is clothes shopping and picks up a dress, you might compliment her with "Wow, great choice of colour there. Do you study fashion?". This is contextually relevant because she is considering a purchase, and your compliment of her tastes in clothing is fairly unique in that context.

Mature women have been around the block and they can spot insincerity a mile away. You really need to avoid bland, uncreative statements like "Wow, you're beautiful!". She will smile and thank you, but inside she may be thinking "He's nice, well, time to keep shopping". You want her to be thinking "Wow, here's an insightful guy!". Try to keep your compliments contextually relevant and you will get much better reactions from the women you compliment.